Gay brothers relationship

Why gay men often have older brothers: ‘Many confirmations that this pattern exists’

Researchers are further exploring the notion that having an older brother increases a man’s chances of being gay.

“This pattern has been documented around Canada and the United States, but it goes skillfully beyond that,” Stetson University psychology professor Scott Semenyna told NPR this week.

“There’s been now many confirmations that this pattern exists in countries like Samoa,” he continued. “It exists in southern Mexico. It exists in places prefer Turkey and Brazil.”

Known since the 1990s as the fraternal birth order consequence, it has been theorized that men have roughly a 33% increased probability of being attracted to men for every older brother they have, according to Semenyna.

Those with one older brother have an approximate 2.6% probability of being gay “and then that probability would multiply another 33% if there was a second older brother, to about 3.5%,” he explained.

People with five older brothers have about an 8% chance.

Potential connections and possible biological associations through parental chromosomes

Gay people often have older brothers. Why? And does it matter?

The Science of Siblings is a new series exploring the ways our siblings can influence us, from our money and our mental health all the way down to our very molecules. We’ll be sharing these stories over the next several weeks.

This is something I learned years ago through gay block chatter: Gay people are often the youngest kids in their families. I liked the thought right away — as a homosexual youngest sibling, it made me sense like there was a statistical arrange to things and I fit neatly into that order.

When I started to report on the science behind it, I learned it’s true: There is a well-documented correlation between having older siblings (older brothers, specifically) and a person’s chance of being gay. But parts of the story also struck me as strange and dark. I thought of We the Animals, Justin Torres’ haunting semi-autobiographical novel about three brothers — the youngest of whom is queer — growing up in New York mention. So I called Torres to receive his take on the idea.

Torres’ first reaction was to find it considerably less appealing than I did. This makes sense — his

3 Years Later, Gay Ex-Lovers Recall Learning On TV That They Are Half-Brothers

Two British men who were once gay lovers speak they have both moved on with their lives after study on live TV three years ago that they are really half-brothers. The men, identified only as Paul and Lee, recently gave an update on their situation for the 10th anniversary of “The Jeremy Kyle Show,” on which they previously appeared in 2012.

They explained that they first met through an online dating site, then were left devastated after learning on the show in 2012 that they have the same mother. They told host Jeremy Kyle that they have moved on with their lives -- though they remain close.

Their appearance on the program three years ago was a harrowing experience for both men, they said. They were in a sexual relationship and even planned to get married at some point. However, when Lee introduced Paul to his mother and stepfather, they uncovered secrets of their past that changed everything for them.

Lee’s family noticed Paul looked a lot like his mom Ena’s ex-husband Ron, whose surname was the same as Paul’s. Ena then revealed that Lee had a secret half-brother.

 

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Fans are entertained and inspired by the characters of Mitch and Claire on the ABC TV sitcom, Modern Family. The dynamics between the gay brother and his sister give viewers some insight into the close and supportive relationship that can exist in such situations.

 

Discussions about coming out typically deal with telling the parents. That makes sense, especially for young people still living at residence. However, siblings perform a role in the process as well. They can help ease the way or contribute to the conflict. The