Gay loving

Some gay men put up with a lot in their relationships. Their long-term partners will aggressively flirt with other men in front of them, go home with a guy from the bar without any forewarning, nap with ex-lovers without gaining consent from their current significant other, or brag to their current boyfriends about the quality of their sex with strangers. Ouch.

Here’s what I uncover most concerning. Some gay men don’t feel they own a right to be upset about these behaviors. They’ll ask me why they feel so jealous and how can I aid them let leave of their insecurity. They think that the gay people believes in sexual freedom and it isn’t cool or manly to oppose to their partner’s sexual behavior.

In other words, they experience shame for experiencing hurt by the actions of their long-term partners.

Heterosexual couples get plenty of social support for treating their partners with respect when it comes to sex. Outrage is the typical social response when friends are told about poor relationship conduct among straight people. When gay men tell the similar heartbreaking stories they are less likely to get a big response. LGBTQ

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